Be like Vivy!
On the rare occasion that I get to buy a magazine and have a quite read; I found myself being so connected to Vivy Yusof, The self made fashion mogul. Having read her article on Her World magazine – March 2017 issue; it shed some very human light onto this fashionista whom I once thought was the unreachable goddess. As it turns out, she’s very much human. A real woman with real PMS issues, a wife with simply too much love for her husband, a mother who is head over heals for her two children and would drop everything in a heartbeat for them. She’s as woman as you and I. Yeay!
On becoming Vivy, to sum it up quite succinctly, Her World symbolises this fashion mogul as The Positivist, The Entrepreneur, The Advocate, The Wife, The Mother, The Woman, and best of all The Juggler. At some generic level, I felt as if Vivy and I grew up similarly and plausibly share the same dream. Her passion became her reality! She turned society’s everyday problems into a multi-million dollar solution. She is the embodiment of a woman that can and will have it all!
Loving what Vivy said and I quote “I don’t feel like I’m a bad mother when I go to work, even when my kids cry for me. Every woman has to work to earn an income. Your career doesn’t stop just because you’re a mother”. I, for one can really connect with that statement. I think as women we should recognise that when we are better women for ourselves, we naturally become better wives and better mothers. Don’t you think?
Here’s my take on what makes women a better person for themselves:-
1. Confidence is sexy. Vulnerability is flirtatious.
Seriously – it shows how you feel about yourself. Nothing beats sexy when it comes to confidence…not even Victoria Secret! Why? Because when a woman is decisive, it shows that she knows her stuff and has the facts to back it up. That is how respect is earned. Though at the very same time women need to show that we are also vulnerable at some point and we need to be rescued. C’mon ladies, you know you love to play the Demsel_In_Distress role once in awhile. It adds pizazz and without realising that it makes you stylishly more attractive. So for a woman to know when to play these 2 roles interchangeably shows she know how to treat others and how she wants to be treated in return.
2. Live life with enthusiasm.
Be the person that turns everything into gold. By that, I mean leave a lasting impression of how you make people feel when you’re around them. Be contagious. Your laugh, your smile, your thoughts, your fashion sense… because you have your own sense of imagination – And that is attractive! Be excited about everything that you do. Appreciate all that is in front of you and never feel guilty about wanting more, it shows drive! Its pretty hard to be an enthusiastic person if you don’t really know yourself or what u want, right?
3. Beautiful mind.
As we age, our physical beauty may fade and take a different form all together. Hence the exterior becomes less significant. When a woman is creative in her thoughts, not afraid to form her own opinion, yet still remain respectful; and widely diverse in her knowledge of things; it makes her far more sophisticated than her last hair-do! So read more, engage in productive conversations, surround yourself with positive thinkers, and be visionary.
4. Say it with your eyes.
The eyes says it all. You can kill someone with just a stare…. And yet you can smile through your eyes and know instantaneously that’s happiness coming from the heart. Do everything with conviction and fortitude and devotion; and it will shine through your eyes.
5. Be your own person.
After all, he fell in love with the real you. Now I’m not saying you should stop waxing all together! By all means ladies, hygiene should always be the preexistance of your being. Just don’t try to fit into society’s mold of what kind of woman you should be. Be in the company of like-minded people and you will feel even more blessed to be the person that you are always meant & destined to be. Surround yourself with inspiring personalities, self-driven go getters who’s will to succeed fires you up. As the saying goes “Be the best version of yourself “
And I guess that’s why I love to surround myself with energetic people in Top Leaders Circle, self-motivated individuals that have dreams as high as the mountain and they know exactly how to get there. At Top Leaders Circle, we nurture your hidden qualities, make you realise your truest potential by showing you how we do it. Just when you think you can’t, or you don’t have what it takes, or you have no experience; we prove you wrong!…because at Top Leaders Circle we only show you how unbelievably brilliant and skillful you can be. By simply following our proven successful strategies… all you need to do is just apply the easy method and success is yours for the taking!
We are confident in our strategies that we impart because these are already proven results. Many women have admitted they are too scared to try something they know nothing about, or they are too shy, or they have no confidence to start…. And all the what if’s of this world. We, at Top Leaders Circle have taken these very same women and turned them into confident entrepreneurs today. These very same women whom at one point had zero knowledge n not even the confidence to speak, are now successfully driving their business and travelling the world. Needless to say they all have a much healthier & fatter bank balance now!
If you’re feeling inspired by the likes of Vivy Yusof, like me or just feeling motivated to start a business and don’t know what yet… Come talk to us at Top Leaders Circle. We might just be able to give you an impetus to generate a whole lotta extra cash somehow.
If you’re ambitious, but don’t quite know how to get there… let us be your guiding light!
Looking forward to hear your story!
Living Like Lynn